Who are these famous women who start off raunchy, then after a while become tame like kittens?
Who are these "born again" virgins who date some of the world's most eligible bachelors and keep them dangling, until the wedding night?
Mariah Carey are among Miranda Otto the growing number of women who make their men wait. It creates excitement. Who wouldn't look forward to that first night together with the man of their dreams?
Waiting is about respect. If a man loves you for who you are, then he will wait and think highly of you for having principles and for not just throwing yourself at his feet.
Some women are so easy, so fast that they are not treasured. What men don't have to wait for and work toward, they do not value.
It's a disposable culture and some women are the unwilling victims....
Sex happens and then its over, then you've got the rest of the day to experience, is this going to be a nice time for you both, together?
Waiting through the time of courtship and dating: creates space. It helps you to decide if you really want to spend the rest of your life with them. It's not enough that they are attractive, you want to know if they are kind and supportive, if they really care and value you.
You want to see if you are a good team together.
Are they amazing enough, to warrant you foregoing everyone else for them? Are they worth it?